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Aubyn de Lisle
Psychotherapist in Bayswater - Registered 4+ Years

Registered Psychotherapist Aubyn de Lisle
9 Orme Court
Bayswater
London
W2 4RL
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  • Individual £70 - 50 minutes
Engagement rate - 32% of enquirers became verified clients

Working Hours

  • Mondays4pm - 7pm

Issue Covered

  • Abuse
  • Alcohol Dependence
  • Anger
  • Anorexia
  • Anxiety
  • Bereavement
  • Binge Eating
  • Body Dysmorphia
  • Borderline Personality
  • Bulimia
  • Depression
  • Narcissistic Personality
  • OCD
  • Panic
  • PTSD
  • Relationship Problems
  • Self Esteem
  • Self Harm
  • Sexual Problems
  • Sleep Problems
  • Social Anxiety
  • Stress


Therapies

  • Counselling
  • Psychotherapy


Private Health Insurance Registrations

  • Aviva Health
  • PruHealth
  • Simplyhealth




More Detail

4+ Years Post-Registration Experience

Hi. I am Aubyn. I'm a registered psychotherapist - I support individuals with their mental health. I have private sector experience as a psychotherapist. My focus involves relationship problems, as well as the particular challenges encountered by men and women.

What to Expect

An introductory assessment session enables you to see if you feel comfortable with me, discuss what concerns you, ask questions, clarify confidentiality, and assess if therapy could assist you. Please use a contact option on the right to arrange an initial assessment session in Bayswater, London, Market Harborough or Fulham Broadway, London.

Counselling

Counselling centres on listening to you, and assisting you. You determine which issue concerning your childhood and/or adult life you explore. An aim of counselling is to enable you to talk about a problem and find a way forward that is right for you.

The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) (England and Wales) recommends counselling for depression.

Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy focuses on you, and you gaining insight into the problems you face. It considers your ideas, emotions and relevant moments in your history. Psychotherapy intends to help you develop or discover suitable methods of managing.

Thoughts on Mental Health

The key to understanding self harming is to understand that it serves a positive purpose. The physical pain helps to alleviate emotional suffering. Sometimes your emotions may be overwhelming and mixed up with all sorts of unaddressed confusion. This might involve shame, grief, disgust or anger. Sometimes there may be an aspect to self harming which involves conscious self-punishing. Your way of dealing with self-disgust and shame may be to 'live in your head'; you may disconnect from your bodily awareness in a way that sometimes makes you feel like you're going 'crazy' and disconnected from reality, especially when something stressful happens. The pain of self harm can be a way of overriding your 'head' and reconnecting with your body which feels reassuring, soothing.
Read More: Therapists explain common causes of self harm
One of the problems with stigma about mental health is that you yourself may be influenced by negative beliefs and judgement, and ashamed of whatever problem you are dealing with. But you are not your illness or condition. So instead of saying, for example, "I am depressed" or "I am anxious", try instead saying "I experience depression" or "I experience anxiety". It's a big difference.
Read More: Time To Talk Day 2015: Ten things you can do to help combat stigma
Someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder will have to maintain their sense of grandiose validation, respect and self worth at all costs and everyone around the narcissist will serve to reflect their self worth back at them. Anyone who fails to make the narcissist feel good about themselves will trigger destructive rage and ultimately be discarded.
Read More: Therapists explain common causes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Qualifications Timeline

September
2013
UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) Registered Psychotherapist
December
2012
BACP and UKCP Accredited Diploma Training Course
Counselling and Psychotherapy
Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education (UK)

Aubyn abides by the Code of Ethics of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and the Code of Ethics of the Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education (CCPE) London.

Location Detail


My Consulting Address is in easy reach of

Bayswater, Notting Hill Gate, Lancaster Gate, Holland Park, Westbourne Green, Kensington, Portobello, Paddington, Notting Hill, Warwick Avenue, Maida Hill, Knightsbridge, Hyde Park, South Kensington, Marble Arch, Maida Vale, Marylebone, Olympia, Earls Court, West Kensington

Nearest Train Stations

  • London Paddington (0.5 miles)
  • Kensington (Olympia) (1.3 miles)
  • London Marylebone (1.4 miles)
  • Shepherd's Bush (1.7 miles)
  • West Brompton (1.7 miles)
  • Queen's Park (London) (1.7 miles)
  • Kilburn High Road (1.8 miles)
  • Imperial Wharf (2 miles)
  • Kensal Green (2.1 miles)
  • Kensal Rise (2.1 miles)


Nearest London Underground Tube Stations

  • Queensway (0.1 miles)
  • Bayswater (0.1 miles)
  • Notting Hill Gate (0.3 miles)
  • Royal Oak (0.5 miles)
  • Lancaster Gate (0.6 miles)


Wheelchair access: No

Updated 15 November 2017